Wednesday, June 4, 2008

At the Center

These children are at the
very center of life in the kingdom

Mark 10:14b (The Message)

“Our culture is child centered at the moment,” was the comment made by my walking partner, an elementary school teacher. She was responding to my question as to whether she had seen a change over the years in the behavior of children. It became apparent that a teacher’s life isn’t easy given the self focused personalities of children. However, that evening at church I saw centers of life jumping up and down singing about the power of Jesus. I saw hope!

Children are the center of life but too often we’re confusing which “life” they ought to center. Once I met a young man who claimed that his parents never told him what to do; they just wanted him to be “happy.” Unfortunately I never saw him be "happy." His parents had centered him in their life forgetting where his true center lay.

Jesus saw the ability of children to throw themselves at something, wholeheartedly, without reserve as a way of illustrating what it meant to live in the kingdom. On one hand it might appear that we should make children the center of our culture, but there’s a catch. When we forget that our children are the center of life in the kingdom of God and instead make them the center of our lives we destroy their identities in the kingdom.

As Jesus followers, who are involved in the lives of children, let’s not focus on giving them a desire to be “happy” but show them how to claim their identities as centers of life in the kingdom.

Jesus, help us to remember that
children are not merely sources of
happiness but the centers of
Your Kingdom. Give us wisdom
and courage to speak with
our children about where
their true identity lies.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Scot McKnight, in his book The Jesus Creed, said that "Love, a term almost indefinable, is unconditional regard for a person that prompts and shapes behaviors in order to help that person to come what God desires. Love, when working properly, is both emotion and will, affection and action." Imagine if we put more effort into loving our children like this, rather than trying to make the "happy"!